What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
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14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
Nothing too Serious
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
Does pressing a girls boobs hurt?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
Why is my crush beautiful to me but not to others?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
Do people really have sex with animals?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
39~ What are your love languages?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
Any that are a turn off?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
Why is my older sister so mean to me as if I was her enemy?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
Why do some people believe that Homelander would be no match for Superman or Thor?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
Why do Democrats look like snowflakes and Republicans look like Vikings?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
Why does my sister want to have sex with me? What should I do?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
If yes, what?
Why do I get stressed when I go to bed?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
*** Questions About Me ***
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
Would you read them together?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
29- How superstitious are you?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
If you win, what will you make them do?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
52~ What are your hobbies?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
Please share Did you stop?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
The Ice Breaker Questions
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
What is your favorite position? Why?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
Any that are a turn off?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
Do you think this brought you closer together?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
*** Random Questions ***
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
How old are you? Male or Female?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
Family Relation Age Play
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?